In 1 Cor. 12 The Word talks and teaches about God’s placement in the church of certain individuals with certain gifts and graces- 1Cor.12:29-31a
Are all apostles (special messengers)? Are all prophets (inspired interpreters of the will and purposes of God)? Are all teachers? Do all have the power of performing miracles? Do all possess extraordinary powers of healing? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret? But earnestly desire and zealously cultivate the greatest and best gifts and graces (the higher gifts and the choicest graces).
We are told that we should earnestly desire and zealously cultivate the greatest and best gifts and graces.
Earnestly Desire… Zealously Cultivate!
Well, we should all realize what desire means. There must be some young man or young woman in your life at some time that made this emotion kick in for you.
To earnestly desire is one step higher. It’s certainly something exceptional and not an everyday event. It means you want something in your strongest way and you won’t ever forget or lose it if it’s in your power to somehow keep it.
But that’s not all. Besides trying to motivate us to earnestly desire these gifts (the best ones) we are exhorted to zealously cultivate these desires.
What happens when we cultivate a plant? We feed it, water it and do whatever we can think of to help the plant grow. And, in this case, we are to do whatever will help these desires to grow with zeal. No messing around intended here. With zeal.
And yet I will show you a still more excellent way [one that is better by far and the highest of them all—love].
Aah, the purpose of this writing emerges- LOVE. We’re told (rightly so) that love is a way more excellent than even the best of these gifts and graces.
There was a time, a few years ago, when I read this and thought ‘Love must be important’. I looked up to heaven and prayed, ‘OH God, give me love’. That was it. What followed for the next week or so was a series of events that showed me, without question, that God loved me.
I realized then, that I (and you also) didn’t have try to make myself create my own love, but the secret was (like the gifts) that I had to only receive His love which was already there.
Notice this scripture in 1 John 4:10
In this is love: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation (the atoning sacrifice) for our sins.
This then was the beginning of my believing in faith for God’s Love. Faith for His love for me and faith for His love within me.
Here now, is your goal:
The realization in your faith that God really does love you. This can’t be faked. So this is how you must begin. Ask God to show you and help you to know His love for you. Mean it and keep asking. Like the gifts and the graces of God you must earnestly desire and zealously cultivate your desire- to:
Know the love of God who is Love.
Love in you is not a requirement that you must meet out of your own works. Rather, it is the response of your heart- to your faith- when it knows God indeed does love you. As the scripture above tells us- in this is love-not that you first loved God- but that He loved us first- and He demonstrated it by the cross of Christ- which was first given for us.
Once His love is in your heart by faith, it will slowly infuse your whole thinking and personality. Eventually, you will find your love for others beginning to manifest itself even to the unlovely.
How important… is it for you to know He loves you? Take a look at the scriptures that follow…
If I [can] speak in the tongues of men and [even] of angels, but have not love (that reasoning, intentional, spiritual devotion such as is inspired by God’s love for and in us), I am only a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
And if I have prophetic powers (the gift of interpreting the divine will and purpose), and understand all the secret truths and mysteries and possess all knowledge, and if I have [sufficient] faith so that I can remove mountains, but have not love (God’s love in me) I am nothing (a useless nobody).
Even if I dole out all that I have [to the poor in providing] food, and if I surrender my body to be burned or in order that I may glory, but have not love (God’s love in me), I gain nothing. 1 Cor. 13:1-3
It’s obvious then, that in the eyes of God, even if you secured all the gifts and all the graces but lacked God’s love within you, you are only a noisy clanging cymbal or gong, a useless nobody and should not expect to gain anything from God.
Also consider this:
Gal 5:6 For [if we are] in Christ Jesus, neither circumcision nor uncircumcision counts for anything,
but only faith activated and energized and expressed and working through love.
In Christ Jesus, where you now are, and where your spirit has become one spirit with Christ who is a Spirit, and where you have been born again, and where you have been justified and where you (shall) live by faith-
but only by a faith that has been activated and energized and is expressed and working through God’s love for you.
Even all of your faith must be tied with the assurance that your Father loves you and has placed His love for you into your heart.
Not only is love the more excellent way than the gifts and graces, LOVE is absolutely, fundamentally necessary!
YOU MUST FIND HIS LOVE… FIRST-
Love, is, of course about relationships. First and foremost it is about God’s relationship with you. Then, just as important, (says God) is your relationship with others. Now most of you have, at one time or another, been part of a relationship with someone you believed you were in love with. Now the comments below are quotes taken from 1 Cor. 13: 1-4 and they explain what God’s love in you and for you looks like as it’s expressed outward to the people in your life.
Picture God’s love for you as a strong beam of light and your heart as a mirror. When His beam of light hits your mirror heart, it bounces off into the hearts of the people around you.
Remembering, now, the times when you believed you were ‘in love’ with someone, check yourself to see how your love matches up with this kind of love.
Love endures long and is patient and kind;
It just doesn’t give up. It doesn’t grow bored or tired after a time. And, it always presents itself with an attitude and a personality of kindness to the other person or persons.
love never is envious nor boils over with jealousy,
Love is always satisfied in itself since you are already immersed in the greatest love possible, God’s love. It has no need to ever present itself with an attitude or personally of jealousy. This love isn’t overly concerned about itself. The other person or persons are the main object of the Love of God that lives in you.
Love is not boastful or vainglorious, does not display itself haughtily.
Love does not advertise or brag about itself, and as the KJV puts it, God’s Love is never ‘Puffed up’. It hardly notices itself.
Love is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride);
Love never produces an excessively high opinion of itself. Nor does it act like it is better than anybody else. It does not ever compare itself to anybody for it’s own benefit.
Love is not rude (unmannerly) and does not act unbecomingly.
Love feels and thinks always with high respect toward others. It admires those who express and show respect towards God and who are grateful for the love of God and the Hope that that Love brings. It does not admire or respect those who rejoice in misbehavior, and it knows there is never a good reason for people to be disrespectful towards God in thought, works or in word. It weeps for those who willingly condemn themselves.
Love (God’s love in us) does not insist on its own rights or its own way, for it is not self-seeking;
God’s Love in you can sometimes be misunderstood by others and mistaken for weakness. This is because a person of God will easily lay down his own rights and his own ways in order to clear a path for someone else’s discovery of God’s love. Standing up for yourself for the sake of some principle or another- is low on the ladder of righteousness compared to the Love of God flowing in your veins. Those who come to know, in truth, the Love of God- have no need to ‘win’ anything since they’ve already won everything.
it is not touchy or fretful or resentful;
I would say that we all have the temptation to fall into these little traps at one time or another. The thing is, when we start to feel this way, we need to realize that it’s not the love of God causing it. It’s Satan trying to come against God’s love in us. Therefore, we can fall into the assurance that these feelings, when they come, are lies and not reality. Moreover, as we learn to ‘walk in His love’ we will learn to dismiss these feelings from ourselves by stepping back into the fortress that our God is.
Love takes no account of the evil done to it [it pays no attention to a suffered wrong].
God’s Love in you will never prompt you to snarl to someone, ‘Now, that’s the fifth time I’ve had to tell you… don’t you get it, it’s not good when you do it that way!’.
If someone has hurt you, Love will never get you angry and cause you to throw what they did to you back into their face at a later time.
Love ‘covers’ a multitude of sins rather than expose someone with gossip or talking behind their back.
God’s Love in you will not rejoice at injustice and unrighteousness, but you will rejoice when right and truth prevail, once you are aware that God has revealed His love to your heart.
Because of God’s Love for you, in you- You will find that you bear up under anything and everything that comes, and you will be ever ready to believe the best of every person, its hopes are fadeless under all circumstances, and it endures everything [without weakening]. Love never fails [never fades out or becomes obsolete or comes to an end].
Hoping that God’s Love is yours soon. I will be praying- I love you and your family-
Thank you-
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